Wednesday, April 13, 2016

Wow..Look at you !!

 



It all started with that muffin top, right ? When did you first notice that muffin top belly ? Couple of years back ? All through college had washboard abs and then one fine morning woke up to this horror of muffin top.

 Think about it. How many times have you said or thought something like

·       It’s really hard for me to lose weight.

·       I just look at a piece of chocolate cake and gain weight.

·       I have a slow metabolism.


Thoughts like this make you feel like warmed-over teddy bear, but they radically affect your body and what you put into it.


Can we switch the channel and change the direction of our thoughts. Its actually quite boring.    


"Whatever you focus on in your life expands"

What you think and say about yourself, your body, and your food is the hinge upon which your health turns. Your cells eavesdrop on everything you say and think, and by making disparaging comments about your jiggly forearms or turning over the same thought again and again about the tyres around your waist, you’re stamping them into the muscles, glands, and tissues of your mind and body.



Food Fight - Do you overeat healthy food ?

Mom said, "greens, fruits and veggies are healthy". So I eat an apple and a few bananas with breakfast ( read paratha and milk),avoid junk food so only a bowl of sprouts around 11 ish. Lunch is usual 2 chapati ‘s and a bowl of rice, some sides (paneer or chicken), pappad and pickle and some salad  and maybe a sweet dish. By 6  feel damm hungry so hog on some chips or mixture, or a few samosas. Dinner is light …Dal,roti, sabji and some fruits and salads.  

Please.. for reference sake, count the calories from the menu above that you take in ..just one day. And this is without eating out, no festival.. no nothing. You don’t need so much nutrients to lead a healthy life. Do you ??

 If you are having both chapati and rice, one chapati is more than enough. Reduce the quantity of each item by half  and you won’t die of mal nutrition.

You are overeating healthy foods. You need to watch how much you eat of the good stuff. Moderation is the key. Eat anything and everything but in moderation.




Smaller Portion

Use small spoons for serving rice and other dishes.

Train your mind not to go for a second helping “unless its your favourite dish”. My mom has this wonderful habit of cooking everything nutritious ( read everything I hate ) and so I never put on any weight J. I wait for her to cook my favourite meal and that happens at best only once of week. So technically on all other days am on a diet cos I don't eat what I don't like. That's my diet mantra.

Have you thought about this ? You eat more of what you like. But how many things do you really skip anything cos you don't like. Not really, right. List out things that you don't like, and everytime that vegetable or dish is served. Simply skip them and for God's sake the veggie/dish won't feel sad, I promise.


You may have grown up being told to "clean your plate." “Don’t waste food” and how children in Africa are starving. It’s a good thought but unless you are parcelling that left over food to the underprivileged, you are only making yourself obese.

If you have a habit of cleaning your plate now, you're probably overeating. Don’t treat your tummy as a wastebin. The money you save will be spent as hospital bill.


You Wear Clothes That Are Too Big

Get some nice fitting clothes, that highlight your best self. Flaunt yourself, admire yourself, love yourself and you will automatically look good.

And don't miss out on some regular workout :-)
Positive self image ..thats the beginning of all good things to come.



Friday, April 1, 2016

Cheers to the new you and me


How much do you love yourself ? Lots ? Lil ? Very Lil Remember the Kareena Kapoor dialogue from Jab we met " I am my favorite" Can you say that about yourself .

Some where along the way , we got too busy with life. Stopped believing in fairy tales and magic. Became "practical" and started "compromising and adjusting" to life. Remember those college days, when you were in love with yourself, had big dreams and life filled with friends, to where you stand today staring at this self. Will that most popular person in college recognize this face.  

The “monkey mind”—a Buddhist term for the distracted rattle, buzz-buzz, what-should-I-do-what-do-I-do? —was never designed to solve problems.

Lets start from today, lets bring back the magic into life.

Make a list of 100 things you wanna do and achieve... too long okay 50 ? Alright settle for 25 ? 

When I sat down to write mine a couple of years back, it
sounded somewhat like this
  1. Find a new (good) job closer to home. ( I was spending 3 hours commuting at that time)
  2. Learn something new. ( No idea whatso ever it was)
  3. Make new friends (Hadn't made any since college)
  4. Take parents on a "big" vacation (Had not been anywhere outside of India)
  5. Get healthy plan ( Go for walk every evening ? Gym, uumm will figure out)
  6. Read more book (Find a library near home)
  7. Go for swimming every weekend
  8. Buy my first diamond 
  9. Start investing
  10. Attend professional conferences or do something to keep myself updated
  11. Plan for vacations more often
  12. Buy a house (Didn't even have money for down payment) 
  13. Upgrade my car
  14. Be more patient with my son ( Obviously means spend quality time)
  15. Be on time ( If you can't be on time, be early atleast)
  16. Get a new hair style (Total make over, always had long hair, so boy cut maybe)
Not in any particular order, but just penned down my list of things to do. A lot of those would not need any additional money. In fact,after the first 10 or 15 you will have no material things to look forward for". I challenge you, Try it. 

I have so far reached line item 21 and is ready to move from first 25 to 50. This one I learnt from Robin Sharma. He is one of my favorite :-) even got a selfie with him. Jokes apart,
Is it difficult ? Its not. The conscious mind was designed for just two things—to identify problems and formulate goals. Most of the times we aren't even conscious of what we want.

If the Genie were to appear tonight what are your 3 wishes ??

Do you have clarity ? Have you prioritized ?
Okay, tell me wots your third wish ? After lots of money and being a snow white beauty.  
Lets meditate, grab our partners and confess our greatest fears. Lets do all kinds of things that will help us get to the bottom of our third wish.

Give it a try and lets see what comes out..